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Breaking the ice with a guy you like can sometimes be challenging. It can also be tough to break past the typical flirty banter and really get to know each other. And talking about the same old things can get tedious. A little while back I started keeping a list of cool and interesting questions to ask a guy in an attempt to avoid awkward silences and generic conversation.
And this is something important to keep in mind about conversations in general. The best approach is to go in without an image of them, and without wanting to seem a certain way in their eyes. And with that, here is my ultimate list of questions to ask a guy to bond, connect, and just have a laugh!
Some are silly and lighthearted, others are deep and serious and will really force him to step out from behind the mask and share his true self… and that is what creates a connection and real intimacy. I gave a little bit of explanation for the first 50 questions, just to show you why they are such good questions to ask and what they will reveal about a person.
For the remainder, I just listed everything out. All of these questions will open the gates to a deeper connection and bond, something so many people struggle with in this day and age. So enjoy the list, jot down your favorites, and have fun going through them with a guy you like. This is a really good way to gauge how efficient someone is, and what their priorities are.
We all procrastinate on some areas of our lives, and most of us feel guilty about it. We all have a happy place we like to go into after a long hard day, and that place says a lot about who we are and what makes us happy. Most of us are confined by our lives to a certain extent.
Where we live, where we go, what we wear, what we eat … all of these things are governed by how much money we have. But what if money was no option? Our lives would look totally different, and we would be totally different. This question will show you what he really values in life. Is he a hedonist who would live a life of pleasure? Or an activist who would pursue change? Or something in the middle? This is a great question to know what his dream girl looks like, and see how closely you stack up!
What a person remembers and holds onto can tell you a ton about them. Our minds filter through so much information every single day and hold onto a small selection of relevant, important pieces. No matter what, it will tell you a lot about them. Delayed gratification is a of emotional maturity. What is he willing to wait for and work for? Does he believe in destiny or think life is a series of random events?
This thought-provoking question will reveal a lot about how he processes the things that happen to him, and will also show what his outlook is in general. Does he fall into a pit of despair when things go wrong, or is he able to see the silver lining? Does this question make him a little bashful, or is he more than willing to share? Does he reveal positives, or are his answers self-deprecating?
We all hold back for fear of judgment which is rampant in this day and age of social media! This is just a fun, lighthearted question. Some of us just suck at things, and it can be fun to bond over them, and laugh about it! This is a great question to show who he is … who is his true self and how does he tap into that person? Anything related to childhood is bound to open up from wellsprings of information! Our childhoods essentially shaped who we are, and those memories are with us for the long haul, both good and bad.
This is just a fun question that can show you how realistically, or unrealistically, someone views themselves! Does he cast Brad Pitt or Jonah Hill? Pretty much all of us are held back by certain fears. Fear of failure, fear of embarrassment, fear of losing money, fear of making the wrong decision.
But what would life look like if we let go of all that? The answer can be very telling. We all have pet peeves, some make sense, some are just silly and totally random. By knowing his, at least you can avoid doing whatever random thing drives him up all wall! Does he love music? Does he loves taking in beautiful sights? Is he a foodie who loves delicious tastes and smells? What could he absolutely not live without … and conversely, what would he be willing to give up? For most of is, it was middle school and adolescence. For others, it was early adulthood. Either way, this question is bound to tell you a lot about him.
We talk a lot on this site about how every man has a mission… has things he wishes he were achieving. When a woman taps into those things, a man feels incredibly bonded to her and he wants to share himself with her. This questions will show you what means the most to him in life. This will show you how comfortable he is with you so far. Or he might just be a really bold guy with no shame!
This is just a fun thing to consider and will show you what traits he considers the most positive and valuable in our society. This will show you who he admires, and what he hopes his life might look like someday. Who we look up to says a lot about who we are. This question will show you who he wants to be.
So who does he want to be? And what makes him feel good to hear about himself? Another great question to find out what he values in life. A type-A goal-oriented type of guy will probably choose success … and this will show you that he will chase success at any cost, even his emotional wellbeing. A more balanced guy who just likes to enjoy life will probably choose happiness. But most people will probably say both! They say alcohol, anger, and how someone handles money tells you the truth about who they are.
What makes him angry? You can use this question to really dig into the topic and get a sense of how easily his angry switch gets flipped. Mistakes are what shape us and help us grow. But some are best to never, ever be made again. So what shaped him … and what has he vowed never ever to do again? The answer can reveal a lot. Childhood is a minefield, so proceed with caution.
This question is bound to rouse up some untouched hurts and heavy emotions. Or maybe he had an amazing childhood and really has no complaints. Either way, you will learn a lot about him. The world is divided into thinkers and feelers. What makes a difference is how you feel when interacting with others. Extroverts feel charged up by being around other people, while introvert feels drained after heavy socializing.
We all have that something that puts us in touch with our essence and reminds us why we were put on this earth. Some people are lucky enough to have a job that allows them to do that thing, like write or paint or dance, other people need to actively carve out time to go to their passion place. Either way, we all have one and it says a lot about who we are, about our core essence. This is a simple, sweet, and telling question. Now there is an interesting question to think about ….
Our boundaries are a huge part of who we are. This question will show you his biggest boundaries, and he may even reveal important events from his past that caused said boundary to develop. I remember discussing this question with my husband when we were on our third date. Life can only be understood looking backward.
And in the moment something can feel like the worst thing, but in time it can actually turn out to be the best thing. These kinds of stories are the ones that really shape and define our lives. Sometimes you just have to let the emotions out, even guys! This is another question that will reveal his boundaries, and as I mentioned, boundaries reveal a lot about a person.
Also, when he tells you what he considers to be unforgivable, you can make a mental note never ever to do that thing. Most of us have gone through something that totally changed us and made us better in the end. But going through that thing was brutal and painful. What is the hurdle that he had to overcome to make it to a better place? This question can really take you to some deep and interesting places.
What are his? This varies wildly from one person to the next. Some people feel accomplished when they get a lot of work done, others feel accomplished from doing errands and other mundane tasks. And others feel accomplished through spending time with others and connecting. The point is, the answer to this question will reveal a lot. Just kidding, but it will be interesting to hear….
Football season? This question can have a million different answers, all fun to talk about. Is it faith? A quote? His family? A positive attitude? How does he keep going when the going gets tough? Now, this is a great question to ask a guy to see how serious and settled he is in life. If you want a committed relationship, then you need to pay attention to this answer. Would you rather have three horrible years followed by the best year of your life or four mediocre years?
What is something that happened in your life that felt like the worst thing at the time, but was really the best thing in the long run? I hope this article gave you some good ideas for questions to ask a guy to really develop a connection. Now I have a question for you. Do you know what inspires a man to commit to a woman? And now another question. Do you feel like he might be losing interest?Questions to get to know a guy you like
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