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Gen How often does the husband honor his blood family over his own wife? Such is a recipe for disaster! In-law problems are often the result of a husband who allows his mother and father to interfere in his relationship with his wife. Phil ; Prov Selfishness is a marriage killer. For many men they think they are better than their wife simply because they are men. These men have made a serious judgment error. Husbands, tell your wife how important and valuable she is to you. Watch for the loving smile on her face when you do! The Proverbs writer said, "An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, And he will have no lack of gain. Why Because he was sincerely praising his wife! Why did they want to date a complete stranger? Because the one thing they knew was that this man possessed the rare quality of praising his female companion. If he did it for his former wife Judith Viorst: "Brevity may be the soul of wit, but not when someone's saying "I love you.
How much does he love you? When and where did he first begin to love you? Favourable comparisons with all other women he ever loved are also welcome. And even though he insists it would take forever to count the ways in which he loves you, let him start counting. SOS Men persue their future bride with doting ceaseless attention. Once married the husband views marriage as a goal accomplished an on to other of life's challenges.
He then gives his ceaseless doting attention to the job, the boys or anything but his wife. She on the other hand viewed marriage not as a goal met, but as the beginning of a relationship. She viewed his doting attention as a down payment of attentions to come. He viewed it as a means to merely get her to say "I DO". This guy really WON the love of his future wife. He looked good because he groomed his appearance for her.
He smelled good, because he regularly bathed and gargled. And he spoke words of "sweetness" to his love. But give many husbands a few years of marriage and they let their appearance and hygiene slip. But worst of all the sweetness towards their wife is gone. The wife proclaims to her friends, "Did he ever change after we said 'I do'! Buy your wife flowers on a regular basis. But God has placed the father as the head of the household and that means that you must work hard along side of your wife in establishing family discipline.
Many fathers leave the majority of the work of raising the kids up to the wife. In child custody cases, the mother almost always get control of the kids, not because she is a better parent, but because she is the one who has been most involved with them. God commands fathers in Ephesians "And, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger; but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. And then be careful not to "provoke" them to anger, because you have not really taken the time to understand exactly what happened and why.
Some fathers alienate their children because they hastily dish out too harsh a punishment because they want to get back to their TV show or reading the paper. To these husbands, children are an interruption imposed upon him by the wife. Sad indeed. Train up in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.
They teach us there of Jesus' love, of how he died for all, Upon the cruel cross to save those who on Him will call. I've worked hard all week, And I must have one day of rest; and I'm going to the creek. For there I can relax and rest; and fishing is fine they say. So run along; don't bother me, we'll go to church some day. And Daddy's grown old, life's almost through, He finds time to go to church, but what does daughter do?
She says: "Oh Daddy, not today-I stayed up half the night; I know you know that church can wait Then Daddy lifts a trembling hand to brush away the tears, As again he hears the pleading voice, distinctly through the years. He sees a small girl's shining face upturned, with eyes aglow, As she says, "It's time for Bible school; please, Daddy, won't you go? Mt Jesus instructs all Christians, "let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no' and anything beyond these is of evil.
Husbands, when you say you will do something for your wife, have the consideration to do it! Why should she justifiably nag you? Your wife shouldn't have to get you to some binding oath to get you to make the bed, take out the garbage or take her out to dinner as you agreed. By doing what you say you will, you earn her trust in other areas.
Ever wonder why your wife reacts is a funny way? Wife's Reaction Husband's Action When the wife feels insecure. The husband is not being a spiritual leader. When the wife takes matters into her own hands and assumes the leadership role. The husband has allowed problems to continue and even get worse. When the children rebel, the wife blames her husband. The husband has not supported his wife in disciplining the children.
When the wife becomes resentful of financial pressures. The husband has been spending extra money on things he enjoys. When the wife feels inferior and jealous. The husband praises or admires other women. When the wife feels unable to totally give herself body, soul and spirit to her husband. The husband only verbalizes his love when he wants a physical relationship. When the wife feels frustration from not knowing how to please her husband. The husband doesn't praise her for specific things.
When the wife turns to others who will listen to her true feelings. The husband doesn't make the time to listen to his wife. When the wife feels unprotected. The husband has not been alert to the dangers which his wife faces. When the wife feels inadequate in trying to meet her husband's physical needs. The husband has been lusting after other women. When a wife mentally gives up and loses all hope The husband is prideful, never in the wrong, loses his temper to stay in control and never asks for forgiveness.
Prov ; Job ; Jer The Proverbs writer says it this way, "Drink water from your own cistern, And fresh water from your own well Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. And the media is filled with 17 year old models who are not yet graduated high school and never done a hard days work in their life! Job was wise when he said, "I Have made a covenant with my eyes; How then could I gaze at a virgin? Gen Abraham is a man whose wife actually called him "lord".
Sarah had an insight on a personal family matter and Abraham felt that she was wrong. Did you catch that? God told Abraham to obey his wife! He had not taken the time to see things from her point of view. Husbands and wives often live and think in different worlds. A wise husband will "listen" to his wife before God steps in and forces him to. Foolish husbands are arrogant "power-trippers" who know it all, refuse to listen to their wife and fall flat on their face.
SOS Do you know why the "kiss and ride" commuter drop off area's are so popular? Just ask the wives who drop off their husbands for work. A recent TV program documented that the wives loved it. Here they had a "legitimate" reason to expect a kiss from their husband. Husband, when you leave the house for work, give her a kiss. When you come home, tell her you love her and give her another kiss.
Here, in the Song of Solomon, a future wife speaks of her love and desire for a kiss. Esther King Ahasuerus was married to Queen Esther. Look how generous he was with his wife! He said to her, "What is troubling you, Queen Esther?
And what is your request? Even to half of the kingdom it will be given to you. However, back then this was an incredible offer of generosity! How many wives have to grovel and beg for a few dollars while he lavishly spends on himself. Go to long version outline of 10 commandments for wifes. Dysfunctional Hehip. Proper Hehip.
The world's way. God's way. Gives orders without asking or permitting questions, thinks wife not as smart. Asks questions, seeks to truly hear, suggests alternatives, desires imput-learns from others. Makes demands, dishes out directives, lays down the law, cracks the whip-but doesn't delegate. Insecure in personal identity and authority and is therefore defensive if challenged. Secure in self-identity, understands his authority, views challenging as positive.
Values willing cooperation, works for open agreement and understanding. Pushes and manipulates, one man rules in a ridged over-under position. Le, attracts, persuades personal relationships in side-by-side identification. Says, "You do, you must do", or "Yours is not to wonder why, yours is but to do or die"! Generates friction, resistance, resentment, separates and isolates people. Generates acceptance, co-operation, reconciliation, unites and helps persons relate to each other. Asks others to do only those things he has already done like Jesus. The husband is prideful, never in the wrong, loses his temper to stay in control and never asks for forgiveness.What does the bible say about treating your wife
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